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blkdragon1212
03-07-2010, 06:10 PM
Let me take this opportunity to thank all of you for the way business is conducted on this forum. I have been treated with respect, and kindness. This is not because everyone agrees with me, but the disagreement has always been done with respect, and an attempt to show me the error of my ways. It is true that, "Iron sharpens Iron". Knowledge cannot come from total agreement, nor is total agreement realistic.

On this forum are untold years of experience in the use of firearms. None of us have the market cornered on the ideas or tactics. As my Lieutenant always said, "There is more than one way to skin a cat". The rest of it went, "but you will skin it my way". Fortunately, that is not the case on this site.

I have learned a great deal in my short time as a member. I don't always comment, unless there is some constructive information I can add. We have to remember that there are people here who may not have as much experience, or knowledge on the subject. They come here for more than just fellowship, they come for information. We should be mindful of this and not get too full of ourselves, and watch theory.

In fact, that is why I direct more people to this site than to any other. I like to think of it as the "Firearms No Spin Zone" to coin a phrase. I don't know everything there is to know about anything, but I am trying.

It took me a while to take the plunge because of some bad experiences I have had in the past. Several forums I have been associated with had one or two guys who believed that the forum belonged to them. Opposing ideas need not apply. It is important that we remember that our most important job here is not to blow our own horns, but to help others. That is the way this forum has been from my point of view, and hopefully will remain so.

So to each and everyone of you, thank you for the respect and kindness. I think that after ten attempts I have found a home.

:D

sinclair
03-07-2010, 06:36 PM
I don't always comment, unless there is some constructive information I can add.

Here is a thought for you to consider. I learn more about people by the questions they ask than the knowledge they share. And the real kicker is what you learn from those who respond to the question, good or bad.

It took me a while to take the plunge because of some bad experiences I have had in the past.

I suspect that once you begin to participate on multiple forums, it is a given that you will eventually have a bad experience. Its a probability thing. (grin)

Grampa
03-07-2010, 07:23 PM
Glad you like the forum. We do have some pretty experienced members who don't mind sharing their knowledge and expertise, Sinclair, Sam, and Garcia come to mind. And you have to give a whole lot of credit to Bman.

Then you get me, :eek: ! Ah, you have to love it.

Laws of Life #27. Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance.

NMDawg
03-07-2010, 09:11 PM
blkdragon,

glad you enjoy the site. I do too. I definitely get more from this site and the members here than I contribute. I hope that someday I will be able to give back more. I am grateful for the knowledge, wisdom and experience that the members have provided. There are truly some great people here.

MasterBlaster
03-07-2010, 09:32 PM
I think that I have had some of that anti-social site carnage that you speak of also 1212. This is the only one so far that has not led off on the negative foot with me and I'am grateful for that fact.

nmstang
03-08-2010, 05:54 AM
blkdragon1212, I agree with you totally on this. For the most part these guys here shoot straight and most of the disagreements are civil and full of good information. I have seen forums where everyone gets blasted and no one learns anything. Kudos to the mods and please, as this community grows lets maintain the same standard of excellence!

Bman505
03-08-2010, 06:11 AM
This forum wouldn't be this way if it wasn't for the great members we have. I have made a lot of great friends here. I am sure I will make more. Thank you for the compliments guys. we appreciate you though!

blkdragon1212
03-11-2010, 11:15 AM
Hey Guys/Gals!

I just had another one of those bad experiences. I made a "BIG MISTAKE" I posted on another site, I know, bad blkdragon! bad blkdragon! Boy! I got jumped on worst than a "june bug in a chicken coop".

I can't say that I was happy about it, but I can say that it has been reinforced in my mind that we must be polite. One guy said this, "he hasn't been on this forum long enough, how does he know that there is anybody here who needs that information".

Wow! I finally found a forum where ever body knows everything, and where you need to be as smart as they are or you should keep your mouth shut. I guess they don't expect to have any new people joining.

I just felt the need to thank you all again. Not because you agree with me all the time, or even part of the time. I thank you because you guys treat guys like me with respect. I will attempt to be worthy of your respect, and kindness. Having said that, if I get out of line, you have me permission to take me to the "wood shed". Like my daddy said, "It will make you a better person".

Thanks